Family court, explained in plain English

Short, practical guides for dads representing themselves in a children case in England or Wales. Read them before each stage, and share them with anyone who needs them.

Start here: if you've just received court papers, read Your first hearing and The Cafcass safeguarding call first.

Your first hearing (FHDRA)

What happens at the first hearing, how long it takes and what to bring.

The Cafcass safeguarding call

What Cafcass checks, what they'll ask you, and how to come across well.

Section 7 reports

What they are, how long they take, and what to do if you disagree.

Writing a position statement

What to put in one, with a simple template you can copy.

Writing your witness statement

How to set it out, what to include, and what to leave out.

Your court bundle

What goes in it, who prepares it, and how to keep it in order.

MIAMs and mediation

Do you have to try mediation first? Exemptions and the £500 voucher.

Child arrangements orders explained

Lives with, spends time with, shared care and parental responsibility.

Family court jargon buster

Plain-English meanings of the words you'll hear in court.

This guide is general information about private children cases in England and Wales, checked in October 2026. It isn't legal advice for your situation. Rules and fees change, and every case is different. If you're unsure, ask the court, or speak to a solicitor. Some parents qualify for legal aid, especially where there's domestic abuse.